Thursday, December 16, 2010

How to Still Be “You” During Your Holiday Trip Home

In yesterday’s post, I talked about how difficult it can be to "go home" and resist the siren call to re-enact old family roles, follow the old family rules and stay true to who you are becoming. Families resist change and may, without meaning to, send powerful "change back" messages that only get louder once they are in your presence again.

I am crafting all-new family relationships now that I understand everyone’s types and can talk about it with them. But before that, I often avoided holiday gatherings like the plague!

Here are some tips from Carol about how to stay true to your nature…

"It is our original family environment where we learn if it is safe to stay true to our dominant Energy Type and when it is not, we divert to our secondary nature. Watch and learn some great tips on how to overcome this tendency and live your truth everywhere with everyone!" ~~Carol Tuttle

What did you think of the advice Carol gave as she answered the question of the week about being with extended family & living your truth?

I loved that the questioner, Melissa, described the problem as losing her voice! Doesn't that ring true? And Carol's encouragement does, as well.

What will you take with you into your next family gathering?

See you next time!

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~~Carol Tuttle


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